I shared last week about my encounter with Elaine, a woman
who bought a church I formerly served because
it was located across the street from a home she owned. Let me tell you more of that story. As an example of what a small world this
is, I knew her Grandfather. It started on a hot June Sunday, the first
day that I was serving as a United Methodist pastor back in 1974. I had risen early that morning at my
childhood home in Burlington and driven the 2.5 hours for my first Sunday as a
pastor. Today, pastors usually move into
the parsonage before their first Sunday.
In those days, you went to lead
worship at the new church you were serving before you moved into the
parsonage. I did not stay in a motel
because I could not afford it, and I did not stay with any of the folks in the
church because they did not ask. I
officiated at my first worship service at Unity Church at 9:30 and then it was
on to Friendship Church for an 11 am service.
After sharing lunch at a family reunion I was invited to, I had a few hours before the 7 pm service at
Turkey Church. With no home to go to and
with little knowledge of the community or the location of people’s homes, I
remember sitting on the steps of Turkey
Church late that afternoon. What I did
not know is that folks across the street were watching me. They were keeping an eye on this stranger
sitting on the steps of the church. In
a short time, a man came out the
door of that home across from the church
on that hot June afternoon and began to talk.
Of course, I introduced myself as
the new pastor. He was kind enough to
invite me to have dinner with them and to come for a visit. The man told me his name was Leslie, and he
was the Grandfather of my friend who now owns that church. As I sat in Leslie’s home that June day, I met his daughter and her husband. As his daughter prepared dinner, I learned that Leslie’s wife had recently
died. His daughter shared with me some
of the tale of her loss of her mother-
going to visit her grave at the local cemetery on a regular basis…
talking to her Mom at the cemetery.
There I was: 20 years old and a
pastor for less than a day and already
facing an opportunity for pastoral care
with a family who had lost a loved one.
I thought of that encounter of more than 40 years ago as I drove back from
Fayetteville last month and my ironical encounter
with Elaine who owns a church I once
served and was the Grandchild of a man who called me his pastor. No matter what age you are and where you
are, a follower of Christ Jesus never
knows when the opportunity for ministry may be laid before you. On a hot June afternoon over 40 years ago, I
found the opportunity to offer care and compassion to a grieving family whether
I was ready for it or not. When will the
opportunity for ministry come your way?
Have a joy-filled week.- Pastor
Randy Wall
Prayer: God of us all, we thank you for the chance to minister in
your name to the people we encounter.
With the help of your Spirit, help us be ready for the chance that is
ours to minister to others; through
Christ our Lord. Amen.
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