Monday, May 2, 2022

A Mothers Day Tribute to The Living

 


Our daughters- Melissa, Heather, Ginger, Hannah (Left to Right)

Around Mothers Day, I always find myself thinking of the Mothers in my life   It has been over 20 years since Mom died, and much longer since my Grandmothers died.   They were each remarkable women that had a great impact on me.   I became a pastor about the time that women were just beginning to serve as pastors of local churches.  A lot of persons my age and older have struggled with accepting women as pastors.   I never have  largely because of the large place that women, particularly my mother and grandmothers, had in my life.

While I could write long about my mother and grandmothers who have gone on to glory, today I want to write in tribute to the women in my life who are living: my wife, Ann, and our 4 daughters.  While none of them are my mother, my wife Ann and 3 of our 4 daughters are mothers.   All of them are strong women who have touched my life and the lives of  not only our family, but many others.   I do not often speak about them in this forum but today I do with gratitude.


                                                                         Ann, my wife 

My wife, Ann, is one of the most generous people I have ever met.   She is generous not only with her time and talents with our community but with her monies in making gifts to others sometimes without them knowing about her kindness.   While I often find myself in the limelight due to my vocation, Ann often is working behind the scenes and prefers it that way.   While I often react in a quick reactive way to people, Ann most often reacts to people with kindness giving them the benefeit of the doubt.

Our daughters are also great women.   Heather is one of the most intuitive persons I know and is a wonderful mother, wife, and school teacher.  She has a variety of interests and is skilled in so many things.   Ginger is a great Mom and wife and shows the same through her untiring efforts to look after her family.   She is showing in these days her skill in juggling many duties as she finds her self in school again and in the workplace again.   Hannah is so generous to others and is always seeking to take  the side of the underdog and the overlooked.   Though she is not a Mom, she continually seeks to dote on children especially her nieces and nephews.   Melissa tirelessly seeks to be a great role model and teacher to the children in her classroom and a great mother to the 3 young children in her home.   Each of our daughters are special in their own way, and I am grateful for the women and people they are.  

Many years ago, a women in a congregation where I served shared a statement with me that went like this:   “Give me flowers before I die, not when I am dead and gone.”   Today, I give flowers to these living women in my life for who they are to not only me, but to their family and beyond.    Perhaps you can offer a bouquet to the important women in your life.  I love and appreciate  the women you are Ann, Heather, Ginger, Hannah, and Melissa.  You make life better for me and so many! I love you!   Have a joy-filled week and a blessed Mother's Day everyone.  -  Pastor Randy Wall  

 

PRAYER       

Thank you, God, for those mothers and women in my life in days past and today.  Give me words to tell them and show them how much they mean to me;  through Christ our Lord.   Amen.

 



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