Friday, December 16, 2022

A Christmas Gift Never Given

 


Most all of us have Christmas memories that are unforgettable and continue to linger.   For some of us, those memories are good and for others of us those memories are not so good.   Christmas 2000 was a Christmas that I will never forget.  My late Mom was in the hospital and nursing home that Christmas recovering from back surgery in early December 2000.   I remember making my way from my home to my hometown of Burlington to visit her in the hospital before I  had some “Christmas moments” with Ann and our girls.   It would turn out to be my Mom’s last Christmas before her death in August   

My brother Tony, my step-father Beamon, and I had made the decision that we would not exchange  Christmas gifts until Mom was able to be back home.    Since Mom had been sick, I had bought her a nightgown for her Christmas present.   Though Ann and the girls were much more proficient in wrapping Christmas gifts that I was, I insisted that I would wrap her gift even though the gift wrapping was far from perfect.

Shortly after her death in August 2001, I discovered her Christmas gift in a closet.   It was a Christmas gift that was never given.   Nursing home visits, rehab, physical therapy, and other things seemed to get in the way of giving her that nightgown.   Though my memory is a blur over 20 years later, I seem to recall that I took the nightgown and donated it to the local Goodwill Store.  Perhaps some other person got the benefeit of a gift that was never given. 

In these December days, many will offer gifts to young and old:   children, family, friends, co-workers, community helpers (like the postman and the person who delivers our newspaper).   I wonder if there is a gift that you will not give this year?

·         Will you offer the gift of an “I’m sorry” to a friend or family member with which a dispute still lingers?

·         Will you offer the gift of a visit to a friend or family member you have not seen in the longest time?

·         Will you give the gift of taking time to spend with God in prayer and praise and get re-acquainted on His Son’s birthday?

While Christmas is only days away, there is still time and these are gifts you can afford if you would only invest the time.    Have a joy-filled week and a blessed Christmas. Emmanuel, God is with us.-  Pastor Randy Wall

PRAYER --   God, we give you thanks for the unspeakable gift that is ours in Jesus Christ.   Richly we have been given.   Let us richly give.   Amen.


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