One of the things
you may or may not know about me is that my father was an alcoholic. I say that not to seek your pity or your
sympathy, but to help you understand who I am.
My Dad was a good man and had
many wonderful attributes, but he also faced
an addiction to alcohol that left scars on his life and the life of his
family. For many years, I shunned or
avoided facing how his alcoholism affected my life but began to come to terms
with it about 30 years ago. For several
years, I attended regularly a support group for adult children of
alcoholics. The group meant a lot to me in those years, and
I grew a lot through my attendance. One
day, one of the other group members talked about making a gratitude list. I discovered that a gratitude list was
simply a list of those things that you are grateful for in your life. Though I have not attended an adult children
of alcoholic group in decades, I still remember the gratitude list and find
meaning in doing that. I find
myself feeling led to do the same this time of year as Thanksgiving Day approaches and we get closer
to the end of the year.
Perhaps there are
some in anger or sadness wondering what
there is to be thankful and grateful for in 2020. Many have faced the loss of jobs or income…
sickness… school stoppage. I thought
about that when I read the book of Philippians recently. Paul certainly faced his challenges. While many see him as the great missionary
and an apostle, that does not mean that life was easy. He writes the Book of Philippians while he
is in prison for his faith in Christ Jesus.
We also know that he was facing a “thorn in the flesh” though no one
knows exactly what that was. Despite
all of that, read these words that we
find in Philippians 4: 4-7:
4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it
again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The
Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but
in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your
requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which
transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in
Christ Jesus.
In
those words, we find the words of Paul ooze with words like “rejoice”, “thanksgiving”,
and “peace” despite the imprisonment and “thorn in the flesh” that he
faces. Paul sees gratitude despite it
all. Despite the challenges of 2020
for all of us, my heart feels gratitude.
Here are a few things on my gratitude list in these days:
·
I am grateful for my family (my wife, children,
grandchildren, and others) as I remember those who have lost loved ones this
year to COVID-19 and other illnesses
·
I am thankful for the priviledge to be a minister of the
gospel of Jesus Christ and share the love of Christ Jesus as I remember those
who have lost jobs or do a job they do not love
·
I am thankful for my health knowing so many who face health
challenges
·
I am grateful that the social distancing and staying at
home has allowed me to spend more time in God’s word and prayer this year
These
are some things on my gratitude list in November, 2020. I encourage you to write your own. Have a joy-filled week.- Pastor Randy Wall
PRAYER
Lord
God, you are the giver of all good
things. You are the one from whom all
blessings flow. Thank you for all the
blessings in my life. Give me a heart
to see all the goodness that is so freely given; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.